What’s gender got to do with it? Everything.
In our society gender roles are very distinct. Despite our attempts to raise children in a gender free society, it’s hard to get around it when all of the baby clothes are either pink or blue. Think about it; when we’re introduced to someone’s baby, what is one of the first things we want to know? It’s gender. Why? Because then we know how to behave towards the child which in turn teaches them how to act their gender.
But what happens when a person doesn’t fit those prescribed roles? What if someone feels that they are in-between or even identify more with the opposite gender? Why does society restrict us to two genders? After all, we’re all human, so why does our sex determine what role we should play in society?
We’ve been trying to break free of this mentality by giving more rights to women and encouraging men not to be afraid of their “feminine” side. But will we ever really be equal? What does it mean to be equal? Does it mean that we are given the same opportunities? That in itself is restrictive because we are once again basing the rules and laws off of gender. You’re a male so you get this; you’re a female so you get those same things too. Will we ever be able to look beyond this classification and see one another simply as human beings with unalienable rights?
I can only hope that we will one day live in a world that does not exclude those who do not fit into society’s quaint little classification system. In the meantime, we strive to redefine what it means to be male, female, transgender, transsexual so that they all reflect what is most important: humanity.
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