Are we more dependent on things than on people?
Our society is becoming more and more dependent on things: computers, cell phones, cars, starbucks etc. However, if one does not have all of those things, does that mean they are not part of society? Are we excluding humanity in exchange for access to material goods? Technology is not necessarily a bad thing, but when it is only available to a certain group of people, it no longer connects but divides us.
This morning I heard a story about a homeless family who were living in the woods in a camper and some tents. They did not have running water or electricity, besides that which the camper provided. The family managed together until the threat of winter approached. The administrators of the school which the children attended had concerns and didn’t realize “how bad things were” until they visited their camp site. A principal said with great emotion that she was so moved by how happy the family seemed to be despite their living conditions. In response to this, the school took action and the community rallied around the family, eventually providing enough money to secure a home.
Great story, right? It is always heartwarming to hear about the power of compassion, generosity and community. But this story made me question the societal norm of the American dream. Frankly, I admired the family for being so resourceful. I mean, when’s the last time that we had to make it out in “the wild” without the luxuries of running water and electricity, let alone our cell phones or laptops? Please don’t hear what I’m not saying. I’m not saying that homelessness is not a serious issue and problem which our society needs to address. However, the irony is that a large population of the world lives without running water and electricity all of their lives. It is their way of life. However, in American culture, this is quite unheard of and looked down upon. Not having these things may even be considered irresponsible and separates/classifies us.
I suppose I’m just asking if the way of life which the American media is selling us is best for humanity or for technological advancement? We think they go hand in hand, but are we leading ourselves into a trap in which we become so dependent on technology that we don’t know how to relate or live without it? This family not only lived without and admitted that they became even closer because they were forced to interact and work together. Seems like a side effect which we could all benefit from. Why do we need to have things to connect us? If we’re communicating so much more, than why do we seem more dependent on the things themselves than on each other?
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